I don’t really understand it. My husband and I have been married for 11 years. He has gotten used to turning my voice off when I speak. If I ask him to help me with something there is always a negative reason why we shouldn’t do it. Most of the time I end up doing it myself and then get his remarks about how it was done wrong.

Well, if he was there to help in the first place he wouldn’t have to be correcting it.

Why do I write these personal stories? To let other women and wives know that you are not the only one. In some relationships, it’s worse. I should be glad it doesn’t amount to anything physically abusive.

So why do we, women, continue to make this work even when we know that all is lost at this point?

I’ll be back to answer that later.

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